As patience seeks to divluge me in to the deepest intrenchments of smell of very simple and original feelings for the first time in the mind. I sometimes had racked my brain over what is the reason of attachment with you though there isn't any basic give and take or desire fulfillment takes place now and at this perticular moment. This moment is innocent , innocuous of its existence and my feelings for you are real then ever.
Infatuation is the begining of any superficial contact but what if i am attached with no sense of time or belonging to you. This cant be it because it is associated with pleasure and pain. These are carnal or physical activities and now there isnt any of it. To speak in harsh realistic terms there isnt any role of worldly demand and supply constraints here.
I dont know what I would reply if you ever asked me the same question " Why do i love you?" I think would be in vain to think and answer that because when you are everywhere.
" What would i do if i see you right now in physical frame?" I dont even know that because its your love which i feel every now and then, continuously.
" What if you never came to know about my feelings for you?" I am not bothering about that also.
The truth that i have confessed the truth to myself these times; i dont thing the deteremination would falter.
Then what should be the result of this love. What it must culminate to? Where is the end point. When would be the satisfation. These are not even questions as they have their answer inside them!
Loving you has made me to love everything and so is the unconditional love. You and me are flowing in that river together.
I henceforth try to do follow this conduct:
Love everyone and everything, without attaching strings and without judging them.
Have personal regard and respect for the people you meet. Treat them as equals and not inferior or superior in any way.
Work on the principle that everyone is, at heart, good. Assume that although they may do questionable things, the person underneath is fundamentally pure.
If you love someone unconditionally, then you cannot judge or blame them or find them bad.
Unconditional love means love without condition. It means giving love without expecting anything in return, including any reciprocal love.
This can be a difficult route to happiness, yet it is one where a great deal of happiness can be found. The more you can stretch your love, the happier you can be.
Unconditional love is nothing to do with romance. It does not want anything from the other person, though it may want everything for them. It is not about desire and possession; it is about appreciation and concern.
One principle, from the field of psychoanalysis is that we have an inner true self that is too vulnerable to expose, so we cover it up with the mask of a false self. Unconditional love is of the true self. Perhaps also it comes from the true self. In this way, it may be considered as the most real and truthful form of affection.
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